First on the list only because it’s recent.
Altering Dreams – item #1 – Dream Bathroom.
Mostly I am happy with our bathrooms. But we have one shower between 3 bathrooms.
The plan originally had been to reno the downstairs bathroom to the nines to make my dream bathroom. With a corner spa soaker tub, cabinetry, tile etc…. really deck it out nicely, and maybe some day convert the upstairs shower to a shower/tub combo.
Things go as they go, and so now it’s looking like the shower/tub conversion may be it for my whole bathroom dream (unless there’s a snag in that as well that I haven’t been told yet.)
….he’s going to pass on doing up the downstairs bathroom all together (which right now it’s a very long room with a sink and toilet in it.).
Bumms me out a massive amount because it was my only big request when we first got the house and so he promised it would happen.
It started out as the first priority.. Renovate the bathroom and then work on the rest of the house….
But as he thought about stuff and planned it gradually got shuffled lower and lower on the list until it hit this point, where it’s been removed as an option all together.
I think the saddest part is I’ve always tried to make sure that what ever we did wouldn’t screw up the option. Because it’s something I really had my heart set on. Yet, after all of the reassurance time and again that it would be doable, somehow it’s gotten screwed up.
*shrugs*
He had his heart set on something else obviously, and so the bathroom got sacrificed in the end.
Just had to take a moment to vent though, since it was a surprise to me.
As far as I knew, ’til today, he was just temporarily putting a hold on doing the bathroom.
But…*sigh* time to deal with it and move on as they say. ((hugs)) I can pout about it more, but that won’t get me the bathroom I had my heart set on so what’s the point. =)
Altering Dreams – item #1 – Dream Bathroom = Be content with what you have, and improve upon it within your means.
